tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post5585787237759201241..comments2023-08-20T01:51:59.477-07:00Comments on Total Survivalist Libertarian Bitch Fest: Reclaiming me!!Maggyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18429301039175279522noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post-43679488697181372562012-02-13T16:24:09.691-08:002012-02-13T16:24:09.691-08:00Agirl - Thank you!
TinCan - Yes Fibro does suck!!...Agirl - Thank you!<br /><br />TinCan - Yes Fibro does suck!!! I know that them staying here has been a very needed blessing for them. I am glad to help. My brother-in-law works hard but between insulin for Nephew and lawyers bills his financial burden is heavy. I know he hates having to depend on us. He does all he can to be helpful. The kids though tend to figure that since I am home I will do it. I am easy target and easy to ignore. With JW on his new shift the respect for me has gone out the window 90% of the time. It is making the feelings very tense. In front of their dad they are a little better but still not great. He doesn't punish them beyond a lecture so they know how to get away with things. I think that is a huge part of why I am so tired by the end of the day. The stress level is so elevated that I am burned out by the time I actually get Monkey to bed so I would rather just hide or sleep than work on the things I love and deal with them. It sucks.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12764424023850012841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post-28344796023383521932012-02-12T21:44:13.351-08:002012-02-12T21:44:13.351-08:00Oh good. You got that backbone in the mail. Good o...Oh good. You got that backbone in the mail. Good on you. <br /><br />Remember, real family would support your needs, especially if they're mooching, err, rehabilitating their situation, in YOUR house. BTW, DW says Fibro Sucks.TinCan Assassinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01680618418991333460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post-66563448302538535852012-02-10T09:41:07.838-08:002012-02-10T09:41:07.838-08:00So glad to hear that! Sorry it's been a bit o...So glad to hear that! Sorry it's been a bit of struggle, but for you for saying...ENOUGH!agirlandhergunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08369419666474343639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post-50858348335480413472012-02-10T07:57:58.149-08:002012-02-10T07:57:58.149-08:00I am very lucky that Hubby is on my side 100%. I t...I am very lucky that Hubby is on my side 100%. I think he actually was pretty annoyed once he realized the things that I did for me that I let go of. Annoyed that the financial burden of having an extra family in the house made me feel I needed to give up those things. He is now very actively making it known that I come first.<br /><br />I think I have let the stress of having BIL and his kids here just over whelm me. Add that my BIL likes to tease in a way that often feels hurtful and it has made my house a not fun place.<br /><br />I have been a lot more positive about life in general but having Mr. Negativity around makes it hard. Uggg..... This turned from a thanks into another mini-rant.<br /><br />Anyway thank you! All of you! You guys are great!<br /><br />Brigid - Once again you give me inspiration. Thank you for sharing what is I am sure a very rough thing to share.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12764424023850012841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post-77876350222740244772012-02-10T07:28:04.952-08:002012-02-10T07:28:04.952-08:00Good for you. I find that people respect you more...Good for you. I find that people respect you more if you respect yourself and stand up for yourself.<br /><br />I had a bit of a health awakening the other day, and have really re-devoted myself to improving my physical being. It has really improved everything. <br /><br />Keep at it.That Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07134214171521657699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post-25708074678842880302012-02-10T06:11:30.596-08:002012-02-10T06:11:30.596-08:00I hate using this phrase, but: You go girl! :-)I hate using this phrase, but: You go girl! :-)Northhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12778737553770514684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post-88569046120455052642012-02-10T05:14:29.865-08:002012-02-10T05:14:29.865-08:00Lila, do what YOU have to do, they can either go a...Lila, do what YOU have to do, they can either go along (and support you), or do for themselves... Just sayin...Old NFOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16404197287935017147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post-12275705134116777712012-02-10T04:03:48.360-08:002012-02-10T04:03:48.360-08:00Get whole. Whatever it takes.Get whole. Whatever it takes.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06896718673192738974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5482668939889334761.post-26050202020292617682012-02-09T20:29:41.445-08:002012-02-09T20:29:41.445-08:00I don't blog of it, except indirectly, but I w...I don't blog of it, except indirectly, but I was married for a very long time to someone bipolar.It was an illness, would I have left them if they had cancer? But I could do nothing right, the abuse both emotional, and physical, every movement controlled. There were tears, breakdowns, tantrums, suicide attempts. It did not end well. It took me a long time, years, to get back to the strong warrior I was before. Be patient, eat well, exercise your heart, your muscles and your mind. You will get there.Home on the Rangehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03836315423040719919noreply@blogger.com