Tactical but fashionable?

So I am wanting a bag/purse to carry. Not for my gun but for all those things you men carry on your belts and some others hehe. I want to carry my knife, baton, flashlight and any other items I might need fast in exterior pockets and then other stuff interior. Water, snack, baby wipes, glow sticks, fire starter, any other items that might be useful in a stranded scenario but not really as a defense. Finding a bag is proving hard. I have a friend who sells Thirty-One stuff and is a cops wife who has some ideas. *Awesome personalized organization and chick stuff btw for you guys who want gift ideas!! She is happy to ship* Anyway that is a big possibility right now. Most things I find are either guy oriented, ugly carry purses, or really plain. Nancy R. thought diaper-bag which is another good thought. They make some great possibilities these days that aren't kid themed. Usually have great exterior storage. Hmmm..... any ideas? This is one I know a few women carry but then make a bit girly. As you can tell it is hideous.